May
30
HE IS 25, AND I'M 17?
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Helen asked:
Is this a bad age gap? he thinks im 18. and im unequivocally feeling by him, he is so loverly, funny, cute, etc. is this unequivocally which bad a age gap? i havent told my friends yet, or my parents. we have been not dating, but i unequivocally similar to him, and he does me too. only saying peoples opinions prior to i go to the 'next level' and by all means, i know a little people will think, ah he is only regulating you.. but severely i know he is, and im not only being niave. he only seems totaly on the same turn as me.
so yeah, is it ok?
Is this a bad age gap? he thinks im 18. and im unequivocally feeling by him, he is so loverly, funny, cute, etc. is this unequivocally which bad a age gap? i havent told my friends yet, or my parents. we have been not dating, but i unequivocally similar to him, and he does me too. only saying peoples opinions prior to i go to the 'next level' and by all means, i know a little people will think, ah he is only regulating you.. but severely i know he is, and im not only being niave. he only seems totaly on the same turn as me.
so yeah, is it ok?
**im in the UK, authorised age is 16, so the not bootleg here.
**im not still in school, i left with As, and im roughly accomplished collage now//almost 18.
**he doesnt have low mental age, i would only contend mines some-more grown up than a little 17yr olds
**oh, we have well known eachother for similar to 5months, and not been passionate yet, so not only wanting that.
**im quesioning now, not prior to as i didnt actualy ask his age when we met.
* i know theres spelling mistakes/im tired
3 Comments
June 1st, 2009 at 10:53 am
I fyour mature it should be fine Im 18 and would see how it goes with a 25 year old it seems bad now, but how will it be in the future.
June 1st, 2009 at 11:22 am
It's not illegal, so not really. The problem is this: you are in both completely different stages in your life. Or maybe not, I don't know either of you. But keep that into consideration and make sure you both want the same things out of life. Oh, and also your parents most likely won't be too thrilled about it until you are out of college. You have the option to be friends until then, or you can date and potentially piss off your parents. Whichever you think would make you happiest.
June 2nd, 2009 at 2:36 am
If he's been with you for 5 months, hasn't done anything, and you guys have a good emotional connection, then it seems fine. Some people think it is weird, but really it depends on the individuals in the relationship.